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MEETING PLEASE COME
September 4, 2008 --
There will be a short boosters meeting after the scrimmage on Wednesday 9/4/08. Please try to be there tickets for the basket bingo will be handed out. Thank you!
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TIPS FOR BEING A SUPPORTIVE MILFORD PARENT
Being the parent of a Milford High School athlete can be an exciting and memorable adventure. This is wonderful way to share your teenager’s years in school.
To help make your participation most rewarding, the following thoughts collected from several sources are offered.
1) BE POSITIVE
Being on a team and committing the time and energy necessary is quite an accomplishment. Don’t let playing time dictate your son or daughter’s happiness. Celebrate the fact they are participating in an activity so good for their physical, social and emotional growth.
2) BE SUPPORTIVE OF THE COACHING STAFF IN FRONT OF YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER
Nothing can erode the intricate fabric of teamwork faster than athletes doubting the capabilities of their coaches. It can be a cancer that affects performance, confidence and the cohesiveness of the team. No one is born to coach. It takes years to develop all the technical, psychological and social skills necessary in this profession. You may not realize that the “administration” of all duties a head coach must perform can easily be more time-consuming that actual “ on the field/court” coaching. If you have a problem or concern talk to the coach first. If you still have a concern then contact the Athletic Director to set up a meeting with the coach and Athletic Director.
3) BE A PART OF A PARENT NETWORK
Whether you are part of the team’s parent committee or not, very special relationships can be fostered over the careers of our athletes by socializing with other parents. This socialization can take palace at games, after games, etc. Parents need support to be positive with each other, and do not hesitate to remind each other about remaining positive at all times. If you hear a “rumor” that concerns you about any athletic issue, call the coach to clarify what you have heard. Donate your time to help make the experience for every athlete the best it can possibly be. The support we receive is extremely welcome. A positive Booster Club does make a difference.
4) WINNING AND LOSING
To say winning and losing is not important would not be the truth. If it were not important, we wouldn’t keep score. From the Junior High program where the emphasis is developmental, to the Varsity level where the emphasis is on being a competitive team, preparing for the competition and then trying to win is an athlete’s ultimate goal. Working hard, doing what is right and striving to be our best is more important than wins and losses. According to Vince Lombardi, “Winning isn’t everything—BUT TRYING IS.”
5) GOOD SPORTSMANSHIP
Good sportsmanship ought to be a natural behavior—the simple fact is that it isn’t. We need to constantly reemphasize the guiding principles of caring, honesty, respect, responsibility, and being a good loser and a gracious winner. More importantly, we need to “walk the talk” of what we tell our student athletes.
Some things a parent can do to help are:
A) Let the coach do the coaching and support him/her.
B) Congratulate all players on the team, regardless of the outcome.
C) Do not antagonize fans of the opponents.
D) Do not boo, jeer, or ridicule the other team or officials. There would be not games played without the officials.
E) Do not make excuses to your child or blame others for a loss or poor performance.
F) Help control problem parents by sitting with them or reminding them that their behavior could adversely affect the team.
G) Be a fan, not a fanatic.
Giving maximum effort to achieve a team goal with honor and integrity intact is the challenge for every competitor, coach, and yes, for every spectator too.
6) COLLEGE SCHOLARSHIPS.
Having lofty expectations for our children is a normal, healthy, challenging goal. In striving for these expectations, we must also be realistic. Not everyone can receive a college scholarship. Our coaches will help individuals and parents in whatever way they can to find an opportunity for those who wish to pursue collegiate careers. They will not, however, recommend a school at which the athlete cannot potentially be successful. Let the coach know if you have any special needs or interests concerning college. If they have that information, they can possibly find a school to accommodate those needs and fit the profile of your son/daughter.
These years go by very quickly. We encourage you to do everything you can to make them an enjoyable experience that all (parents, the child and the school) can learn from and share in.
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I don't know if anyone is interested in ordering shirts, sweatshirts, Fleeces or even jacket for the parents? If anyone wanted to take that on I have connections and places where you can order. Just let me know.
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